This conversation was close to my heart. My struggle with figuring out is motherhood this hard for everyone? Is marriage this hard for everyone? Or is it just me??
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Here is a summary of our discussion, if you are short on time and want to click to a certain topic.
3:00 – my only Synchro joke
4:24 – that time Elizabeth Gilbert asked me to tell her a story
5:30 – the most important thing I can do for my kids
9:00 – 6.0, why, for some of us, perfection is a real thing
12:30 – when I first started to wonder in parenting, “Why is this so hard for me??”
16:00 – my “diaper-free baby” phase
20:00 – marriage volcano ready to erupt
25:00 – starting to share my personal stories in my writing
33:30 – experiment of doing the thing I most judged other people for doing
38:30 – why having goals was way safer for me than admitting I had needs
40:23 – “You need someone who loves you better” that time I didn’t get divorced
45:00 – my new view of responsibility
50:00 – that time I almost started a “winter camp” because homeschooling sucked
59:25 – dropping my roles and facades, sandcastles
1:02:50 – on teaching kids to be their real selves